Gestalt Therapy

Self-leadership: The relationships extracted from book 16 hours to TEMPER being author: Daniel Fernando Peiro Consultor / Motivador / author increasingly that arises opportunity, commented as follows: the relationships we have are like gold coins or treasure that we keep on our most precious treasure chest: heart. The gesture permanently take each of the coins and wipe with a cloth of silk to give it shine, is like a sweet caress that manifests itself thanks to the most sublime emotions we have. Some of these coins or relationships, to lose its luster, us disappoint and we try to get rid of them by throwing them out of the chest. Instead of acting with rancor, perhaps better to place those coins in the fountain of wishes, asking with love so that someday they glow. Psychiatrist German, creator of Gestalt Therapy, Fritz Perls (1893-1970), invites us to reflect this very deep message: I am I, and you are You; You do yours, I do my thing.

I came not to this world to live up to your expectations; You not came into this world to live up to my expectations. I do my life, you do yours. If we agree, it could be wonderful; If not, there is nothing to do. Each who is self. We have needs-dades different from other people and those differences are that makes us understand us and to grow and evolve as individuals aware. Achieve having empathy is to put ourselves in the place of the other, in order to be able to understand in depth and at the same time, help us achieve our own acceptance in all their integrity.

The others are our own mirror. People with whom we interact are our own mirrors. The gestures and attitudes that we like them, the things that pleasantly surprised us from them, which we value them; they are those characteristics that we also have and accept ourselves. Any rejection that we experience with others, are the things that we do not accept of ourselves and we need to heal internally. People are authentic reflections of our existence. They come to show us who we are in our bright parts, both in our dark parts that need fire to our evolution. Therefore, allow us to judge or condemn others, criticise negativa-mente and complain is, by reflex, something we are doing to ourselves and that in the short or the long run, it will show in our own flesh. The dark parts that we do not recognize ourselves, live in the territory of the ego, which aims to move us from our essence, our true inner being. Is why we often hide what we believe that it is bad for us and only show the good thing that characterizes us. Be aware that people are a mirror of our, it will allow us to discover what we can regulate consciously and so give us more intimate contact with our own inner greatness. As we are going to accept ourselves in those parts which we do not accept it, we are becoming more whole, more intact. We started to have more harmony, we put aside our masks, we attach less importance to our roles that are mere costumes of our ego and we started to emerge our authentic being.

The Last Trip To La Libertad

The family of Eluana Englaro takes more than ten years struggling to fulfill a wish. Disconnected machines, let my daughter die, keep a little dignity, he has not stopped repeating over and over again his father, Giuseppe, before Italian justice without obtaining the expected response. Berlusconi’s Executive has forbidden it through a circular that it affects the entire country. However, Mercedes Bresso, President of the Piedmont, has shown himself willing to that in one of the health centers in their region carry out the disconnection of the probe that provides food to Eluana and keeps it alive since 1992. For the Englaro is glimpsed a light at the end of the tunnel.

Last January 18 met 17 years since a traffic accident while returning home at dawn, postrara forever to Eluana in a bed of religious clinic Beato Talamoni of Lecco, near Milan, where resides with the care of the Misericordine nuns. Check out The Hayzlett Group for additional information. Since then, 38-year-old has remained in irreversible vegetative state and without being able to articulate Word before the controversy over his situation. Voice that has been returned through her father to undertake a legal battle against the Government to give to his daughter what he considers a dignified death. The debate in Italy is served. In November 2008, after several failed attempts, the Supreme Court gave reason to the woman’s family and authorized the withdrawal of her artificial feeding. But the difficulty in finding a hospital that accede to facilitate his death did nothing more than dilate waiting. It was then, when the Health Minister defied justice in mid-December with the sent an order to all the Italian regions which forbids all public hospitals that any act of euthanasia is carried out on its premises. With the offer of the Piedmont circumstances have suffered a new rudder twist. It has not asked us anything, but if we are asked there would be no problem, he has assured Bresso from Brussels, after his meeting with the President of the European Commission, Jose Manuel Durao Barroso.