Test of reality! If still you do not surpass the timidity it is because you feel pity of same you. You cannot control your reactions when you approach the women, reason why are egoistically denying the privilege to them to be with you.Instead of involucrarte with the women and the world generally, you have decided esconderte in a corner and to feel pity by same you. Perhaps you are the type of boy who undertook with the ball and the bat in house if they did not let to you be the thrower when you played baseball. Then What is the reality test? Not to surpass the timidity is only one way to avoid to enter the conflicting field of the life. You avoid the pain the conflicts because not always desire.
Great thing, nobody desire always. You enter the conflicts, it give to the fight presenting/displaying your ideas, and you can win so followed as you can. Then, What is everything what this egoism gives you? You have the girl of your dreams or leave another type not even wins the battle of the love of predetermined form entering the field? Inasmuch as time you left to the fear you it dominates not surpassing the timidity? It is defining all your life. It is hour to enter the field of the life and to end this humiliation! The timidity must be surpassed. If you do not surpass the timidity this your life will paralyze. That " another one tipo" one will always take to house to that girl that as much you wish. It never will see you like a man who can take the initiative and give him what wants; what she needs a man.Only the safe types that they are not scared to fight by her will be able to gain their approval and to secure their favors.